Many people who put off counselling are waiting on one thing: a doctor's referral they think they need first. You do not need one. At The Healing Oak you can book counselling yourself, at either clinic, and this guide covers the few situations where a doctor's note or a claim number still matters.
If you are in crisis
Call or text 9-8-8 (Suicide Crisis Helpline, 24 hours). If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911. In BC you can also call 1-800-784-2433 (1-800-SUICIDE) any time, or 310-6789 (no area code) for mental health support. The Healing Oak is not an emergency service.
Can you book counselling at The Healing Oak without a referral?
Yes. You do not need a doctor's referral to book counselling at The Healing Oak in Chilliwack or Abbotsford. You contact the clinic or the counsellor, choose a time, and book. The counselling page for Chilliwack and Abbotsford lists every counsellor with their credentials and the clinic they work from.
It is a fair thing to wonder about. A lot of health care in BC starts with a visit to your family doctor, so it is natural to assume counselling works the same way. Private counselling is different. MSP does not pay for it, so there is no referral step to clear before you book.
You also do not need a diagnosis, a letter, or a tidy way to describe what is wrong. "I have been feeling off for months and I want to talk to someone" is enough to start. Working out what is going on is part of what the first few sessions are for.
What does booking without a referral look like?
Booking counselling at The Healing Oak takes three steps, and none of them involves a doctor's note.
- Pick a clinic. The Healing Oak Chilliwack is at #101-7408 Vedder Rd, Chilliwack, BC V2R 4E6, phone (604) 846-2999. The Healing Oak Abbotsford is at #111, 2632 Pauline Street, Abbotsford, BC V2S 0C9, phone (604) 850-9097.
- Pick a counsellor, or ask for help picking. Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCCs) work at both clinics. The Canadian Certified Counsellors (CCCs) on the team currently work in Abbotsford. Korey Smith (MPCC-C) sees clients in both cities. Each person's credentials and focus areas are on their practitioner page.
- Call the clinic, or use the booking link on the counsellor's page. Many counsellors take bookings through their own online calendar, and a few ask you to contact them directly first. Their page says which.
If you are not sure who to choose, say what you want help with: anxiety, grief, a relationship, or a specific approach such as EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, a therapy approach used for trauma). The clinic can point you to counsellors whose pages list that focus. In Abbotsford, for example, Susan Doiron (MEd, CCC) and Jae Yoo (CCC-CCS) both list EMDR.
Whoever you book with, ask three practical questions. How long are sessions? Session durations vary. What is the fee? Fees vary by practitioner, so confirm the fee when you book. Can you bill my insurer directly? Direct billing depends on the practitioner, so ask when you book.
When does a referral or doctor's note still matter?
A referral is never needed to book counselling at The Healing Oak, but when someone else is paying, their rules decide what paperwork you need. Sorting this out before your first session saves an awkward surprise later.
Your extended health plan asks for one
Some extended health plans want a physician's note before they reimburse counselling, and others do not. That rule belongs to your plan, not the clinic. Your benefits booklet, your insurer's app, or the member line on your benefits card can tell you. Questions worth asking:
- Does my plan cover counselling, and which designations does it accept (for example RCC, CCC, RSW or MPCC)?
- Do I need a doctor's referral for counselling to be reimbursed, and if so, how long does it stay valid?
- How much is covered per session and per year, and when does my benefit year reset?
- Does counselling share one maximum with psychologists or social workers, or does it have its own?
- Can my counsellor bill you directly, or do I pay and send in the receipt?
If your plan names designations, compare them with the letters beside your counsellor's name. RCC or CCC? What the letters after a counsellor's name mean in BC explains each one.
You were hurt in a car crash
If you were injured in a crash and have an ICBC claim, ICBC's Enhanced Care may pre-approve a set number of counselling sessions in the first weeks after the crash, so confirm what is approved for your claim with your adjuster. You do not need a referral from a family physician or nurse practitioner, or approval from ICBC, but you do need your Personal Health Number and your ICBC claim number, according to ICBC's page on treatment in the first 12 weeks (checked 2026). If you need more help after that early period, your counsellor can work with your ICBC recovery specialist to ask for further sessions to be approved.
Say you were rear-ended on Highway 1 and have felt tense behind the wheel ever since. You can book counselling directly within the first weeks after the crash, with your claim number in hand. Some Healing Oak counsellors work with ICBC clients, so ask which ones when you book.
Your mental health injury is from work
WorkSafeBC is the one route where a diagnosis matters up front. To accept a mental health injury claim, WorkSafeBC needs the injury to come from significant work-related stressors or a traumatic event at work, and it needs a diagnosis by a psychiatrist or psychologist, according to WorkSafeBC's page on mental health injury claims (checked 2026). The same page says it cannot accept claims caused by an employer's decisions about your job, such as workload, discipline or a reorganization.
If you think your situation qualifies, report it to WorkSafeBC first, then talk to your case manager about treatment before you book if you want the claim to pay. You can still start counselling privately while you wait; you would pay yourself or claim on your own benefits. Some Healing Oak counsellors work with WorkSafeBC clients, so ask. Our post on stress leave, WCB claims and return-to-work planning in BC goes into more detail.
You were affected by a violent crime
BC's Crime Victim Assistance Program (CVAP) can pay for counselling for victims of a violent crime that happened in BC, their immediate family members, and certain witnesses, according to the Government of BC's CVAP page (checked 2026). You do not have to wait for charges or a conviction to apply. For a crime on or after January 1, 2024, the application generally has to arrive within two years, with exceptions; there is no time limit for a victim of sexual assault, for example. If a health plan or another source covers counselling, CVAP expects you to claim there first.
VictimLink BC (1-800-563-0808) can connect you with a local victim service program to help with the application. CVAP is accepted by select Healing Oak counsellors, so ask which ones when you book.
Your employer offers an assistance program
If your employer offers an Employee and Family Assistance Program (EAP or EFAP), it is a separate route from your extended health plan, with its own rules. Before you book, ask HR or the program itself:
- How many sessions does the program cover, and does it include family members?
- Do I have to see a counsellor the program assigns, or can I choose my own?
- What, if anything, does my employer learn about my use of the program?
- If I want to keep going after the program's sessions run out, can I stay with the same counsellor and claim on my extended health plan?
Some Healing Oak counsellors work with EAP providers, so mention yours when you book.
You want your family doctor in the loop
If your family doctor is already part of your care, tell your counsellor that, and decide together what, if anything, gets shared. Your counsellor should ask for your consent before sharing anything, outside a few exceptions covered in the next section.
Will anyone else find out you are seeing a counsellor?
What you say in counselling is confidential, with a small number of exceptions your counsellor should explain at the start. For RCCs, the BC Association of Clinical Counsellors' standard on privacy and confidentiality (checked 2026) lists the minimum exceptions: a substantial risk of serious, imminent harm to yourself or someone else, a need to protect an identifiable child or vulnerable adult as the law requires, and other legal requirements such as a court subpoena. The same standard asks RCCs to get your consent before disclosing your information to others.
Counsellors with other credentials, such as CCC, MPCC or RSW, follow their own association's or college's standards. It is always fair to ask any counsellor, "What are the limits of confidentiality with you?"
Two other places your information can travel are worth knowing about:
- Insurance claims. When you claim counselling on a benefit plan, the claim goes to your insurer. If privacy from your employer matters to you, ask your plan administrator what, if anything, your employer can see.
- Programs that pay for sessions. ICBC, WorkSafeBC and CVAP claims can involve reports to the program that is paying. Ask your counsellor what they would need to share, and when.
Does MSP cover counselling, and what does it cost?
MSP generally does not cover private counselling. Many extended health plans do; check your plan. BC's Medical Services Plan lists "services of counsellors or psychologists" among the services it does not cover, according to the Government of British Columbia's page on services not covered by MSP (checked 2026).
At The Healing Oak, fees vary by practitioner. Confirm the fee when you book. Direct billing depends on the practitioner. Ask when you book.
If cost is what is holding you back, the Government of BC's HelpStartsHere site suggests calling 8-1-1 or 2-1-1 (or texting 2-1-1) to ask about free, low-cost or sliding-scale counselling near you, according to its page on free or low-cost services in BC (checked 2026). While you sort that out, 310-6789 (no area code) is BC's mental health support line.
Is counselling the right service, or do you need a psychologist?
Counselling and psychology are separate services at The Healing Oak, and you can book either without a referral. A psychologist can do formal psychological assessments and diagnoses, and counselling is not a substitute for that. If you need a written assessment, if your plan only reimburses psychologists, or if a WorkSafeBC claim needs a diagnosis, start on the psychology service page. If you are still deciding, psychologist vs counsellor vs therapist in BC walks through the choice.
Where to start
You can book counselling yourself, whenever you are ready. If a plan or program will be paying, make one phone call to check its rules first. Then browse the counsellors in Chilliwack and Abbotsford and contact the clinic that suits you. If anxiety, low mood or trauma is what brought you here, our pages on anxiety, depression and PTSD explain where counselling fits.
This article is general information, not medical or psychological advice. For advice about your situation, talk to a qualified practitioner.